Will my girlfriend have sex with others?

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Jayess9
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Re: How to get my girlfriend to have sex with others?

Post by Jayess9 » Wed Sep 11, 2024 10:41 am

She already told you she wouldnt look at you like a man if you did it. Dont do it! My wife is the opposite she sees ma as manly and confident because I am man enough to see her pleasured as a sexual being.She finds it hot.

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Re: How to get my girlfriend to have sex with others?

Post by armyguyot1 » Wed Sep 11, 2024 2:54 pm

Welcome to the forum Jayess9.

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Re: How to get my girlfriend to have sex with others?

Post by BT2 » Wed Sep 11, 2024 7:33 pm

I don't know, specifically, how you get your girlfriend to have sex with others. It would be pretty difficult for a woman in a committed relationship to go in one fell swoop from monogamy to being a hotwife.

My wife and I started out slowly and in fact had no thought of her becoming a hotwife. We'd turn each other on by reading sexy stories to each other, going to a sauna, watching a porn' movie, going out somewhere in public and her wearing a skirt but no panties, etc., all to turn each other on, but also safe. One time we decided for her to have a bodyrub (tantric massage) which we thought would be fun but safe. The bodyrub started off innocently enough, but before long the guy had her naked (willingly) under a towel until the towel disappeared, got closer and closer to her lady parts, and eventually she, with absolutely no prompting from me, was tugging at his clothes to get naked as well. That visit ended in her having a happy ending courtesy of his hand. The second visit ended in mutual oral. The third bodyrub ended in intercourse.

I have absolutely no idea if a slow build up would work in your case or not. But if you try it, it must be a "tantric" massage, or a guy who does bodyrubs. A legitimate masseur (regular massage) would not risk his employment, license, and a possible jail sentence by getting sexually involved with a client.

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Re: How to get my girlfriend to have sex with others?

Post by zorro » Wed Sep 11, 2024 7:55 pm

With truly deep respect, I wonder if you are asking the right question. "Getting" your girlfriend to have sex with others comes across as very manipulative and frankly using your GF as a physical object for your fantasy pleasure. She may indeed be changing since she has had time to be exposed to HW and is starting to connect with something about it that resonates with her.

May I humbly suggest you turn this around to an emphasis on opening up your conversation to what she might want to do if anything were possible. What is her "taste" that she was not in touch with when she doubted she could respect you if you watched her have sex with someone else? What turns her on? And what would she contemplate doing if given the chance.

Sounds like shaky and incomplete communication between you two. I'd work first on developing a deeper knowledge and understanding of each other. You may not have to do anything to "get" her to be hotter. Maybe she already is. Make her feel safe with you.
Sharing your partner is a very loving act. Double her pleasure; double your fun.
Kevin Foster, The Three Marriage Enigmas: ". . . sex with a man other than her husband is simply the most erotic sex possible for a woman."

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